It's like you flip a switch.
W— For me, it took a while to turn it off because I was always around guys. And it was always on like, battle, battle, battle, I don't care who you are, I'm going to smoke you. But as I got older, became a mother, and was involved more around b-girls, I learned more about my femininity, how to be more graceful, how to approach the dance with some grace, but also be intimidating. Man, it's so dope to see legends and women before me set that platform. And I always give them credit, you know?
Do you hope as you continue on in your career to be that influence to young girls doing it?
W— Most definitely. I wholeheartedly and fully commit to pave this new road for women from whatever I've learned. I'm all for all the women, the men, all genders. My space is open for everyone.
What advice would you have to give to people of any age? Or even younger girls who are wanting to get involved?
W— How long are you in this for? Why are you in this? Take time for yourself. Understand that this is a marathon, not an instant win. You've got to learn to find yourself in this dance and identify who you are. Also, pay homage and when you dance, have honor. Have a lot of honor when you dance because this dance wouldn't be here without the other legends that have established this dance for you.
And Sel, tell me a little bit about yourself.
SEL— My name is Sel and I grew up in Gardena, California. Right now I'm repping Soul Control Climax right now and forever. I started breaking in my living room with the introduction of my brothers. After I started breaking, I kind of fell away from that because my brother started doing other things. I started to get into other dance styles. Then throughout middle school, I got reintroduced to breaking and that was about like 2007 through a dance program held by Culture Shock Los Angeles. After middle school, I actually joined their youth team Future Shock LA and then I started to go into choreography. I started learning dance styles, like house, new jack, whacking, locking, and a little bit of popping, but I was still the b-girl in the crew. But I didn't actually go into the breaking scene until after high school. I like to do a lot of clean foundational footwork and then freezes. I don't really do a lot of power. And it's kind of crazy because I come from a crew, Soul Control Climax. They're the West Coast crew, and they really pioneered a lot of repetitive power moves like air flare, windmills. Now at my point in my breaking life, I am actually learning how to do more power, but it's still a learning stepping stone.
Growing up did you see that there were a lot of girls breaking?
S— When I used to dance in Gardena, there were a couple of the girls from that area, and they, unfortunately, don't dance anymore, but they were definitely an inspiration because the ratio from the girls to the boys is less. We were just kind of like the 3 b-girls of Gardena. I ended up meeting Val Pal because of Culture Shock. I definitely looked up to a lot of the girls. They didn't have crazy power moves, but they were just graceful. They were doing dope flexible freezes. And so I think that definitely inspired a lot of things that I do. When I was a kid and I first started breaking, my brothers were teaching me handstands. And that's why I gravitate towards just ending in freezes, and just on my hands a lot. So you gotta bring it back.
Where do you see the inclusion of girls headed in the future?
S— We just had a b-girl brunch and we had a really dope discussion about how to create a safe space for women, especially in such a masculine community. And right now, what I love is that it's so welcoming, even for little girls. By the time they're like 13 they're already doing power moves, halos, and sick foundation footwork. Right now the fact that there are so many b-girls out there right now definitely inspires the younger generation. I was in Colorado, and I had so many little girls just asking me questions. And of course, they don't want to ask the guys. Whenever a young girl comes up to me and is like, "Oh, can you give me tips on this?" And that I'm like, "of course, definitely." I will never say I have no time for you. I just want to share the culture. It gives you confidence and it gives you strength.