What is the most common icebreaker a client uses when he sits down?
Usually, it’s more up to us to make contact and find a little way to start the conversation. But obviously, some clients will come straight over to us.
It can start simply by telling us that they find us very beautiful, or with a more direct and less classy approach like, “How much?”
I’ve often had the classic “you remind me of someone,” followed by “some actress,” or more recently, “I think I’ve seen you in an X-rated movie…”
When a guy is trying to play it cool, what’s the giveaway that he's actually nervous?
It depends on the person.
Some guys act way too comfortable in these places, as if they already know all the codes. They talk a lot, with this little need to put themselves forward and show that they supposedly don’t need to be there to find a girl.
They play the mysterious guy, the guy who has the whole situation under control…
But it’s actually when they try a little too hard to seem relaxed that you realize they’re probably trying to hide something.
How quickly does a first-timer's posture change once they settle into the space?
Very quickly. Sometimes after the very first dance. At first, they can be a little more reserved.
Then, once they understand how things work, they start finding their feet.
That’s when they can start wanting to test the limits, set their own conditions, or go from one dance to another with different dancers…
























