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Patrick Dooley: Designing the Room Before It Happens

Great hospitality to me is about rewriting the script. For so long, “great service” has been this polished almost performative service that feels somewhat rehearsed and distant. My lens is rooted in humanity first. It’s about engaging people as people, not transactions and being present, reading the room and creating interactions that actually feel natural and intentional. I believe in being deeply personable, but with purpose. When its done right, there’s no forced charm, just genuine connection that makes someone feel seen. 

What separates a good members club from a great one?

What separates a good members club from a great one is the difference between access and belonging. A good club offers  beautiful designed spaces, strong programming and a sense of exclusivity. But a great one goes beyond that and creates an environment where people feel genuinely known and seen. It comes down to intentionality and how people are welcomed when they arrived but also how they’re remembered and engaged over time. A members club shouldn’t be just a place you go, it should be a place that reflects you back to yourself in an organic and natural way.

  • Honestly, it starts before the doors even open. I think about the energy, the mix and the little social dynamics that aren’t obvious on paper but completely decide how a room unfolds. It’s not just about who’s “impressive” it’s about  who sparks conversation, who shifts the mood, who brings a bit of magic. The design of a space matters of course, I am a homosexual after all, but that’s just the backdrop, the real work is in the orchestration and how people arrive, who they’re greeted by, the first few interactions they have. I’m also always thinking about connecting dots and introducing people who didn’t know they needed to meet, making sure no one feels out of place. There’s a level of looseness I think is important so the crowd doesn’t feel over managed but that they’re unfolding naturally even though there’s always intention behind it. It should feel a little electric and a little unexpected as if anything could happen. 

  • What is one trend in hospitality you are excited about? 

Right now, I’m really excited by this shift toward bold maximalism. For a while luxury hospitality felt very restrained, very neutral, almost like spaces were trying not to say too much, but now it kinda feels like the opposite in the best way. Spaces are leaning into color, personality, humor… a little bit of intentional chaos. I love when a space doesn’t take itself too seriously when you walk in and there’s something unexpected, something that makes you smile or do a double take. It disarms people and gives them permission to loosen up and engage more naturally. There’s also something really powerful when a space feels like its been there forever and evolved over time rather than being perfectly packaged. It creates a sense of discovery, people don’t just pass through, they interact with it. Bold spaces create bolder interactions, they feel expressive, playful, and much more human. And that’s what I think people are craving right now. 

  • Exclusivity for the sake of exclusivity. For a while, it worked for sure, there was a certain allure to being hard to access. But now, people are a lot more perceptive and they can tell when something is genuinely special rather than just being positioned that way, the issue is when access becomes the whole story. A great space can’t rely on a door policy or a membership model alone, it has to actually deliver once you’re inside. Otherwise it starts to feel hollow, like the idea of the place matters more than the experience itself. For me, the most interesting spaces are the ones that have a sense of discernment and substance and actually being “in the room” means something because of the people and the energy. Exclusivity should be a byproduct, not the whole foundation because when it’s earned, you feel it. When it’s forced, you really feel that too.

  • Id say it’s less about status and more about energy. A great member understands that they’re not just there to take from the room but they should be adding to it too. They bring something with them, whether that’s perspective, curiosity or just the ability to make other people feel comfortable. There’s also a level of awareness, they know how to read the room, when to lean in and when to give space and how to include others without making it a performance. I’m always drawn to people who are generous with their presence, in the sense that they love to introduce people and connect dots, they don’t gatekeep the experience.

  • It’s everything!! but only if it’s real. You can’t fake it anymore, and you definitely can’t bolt it on. People can walk in and immediately feel whether something’s actually connected to what’s happening or just trying to look like it is. For me, it’s about actually being in the mix rather thasing it. The best spaces feel like they’re part of the rhythm already. They have a point of view, they attract the right people, and things just start to happen naturally. It’s less “look at us” and more “you kind of had to be there.” There’s also this openness that’s really important right now. The most exciting places are a little bit fluid and they’re all colliding in a way that feels effortless, a little unexpected and honestly just fun to be around. At the end of the day, it’s not about trying to be culturally relevant, it’s about being somewhere where culture is actually unfolding in real time. 

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