Onyewuenyi
The exhibition title, YOU CAN HATE ME NOW, immediately made me think about Nas — and specifically the “Hate Me Now” video. My brother-in-law still lives near the deli where they shot some of it.
Gaitor-Lomack
Up on the deli?
Onyewuenyi
Yeah.
Gaitor-Lomack
That was an iconic moment for 1999.
Onyewuenyi
Iconic.
Gaitor-Lomack
You know, it’s funny. I almost created some kind of custom awning situation for this show, something I could climb up onto during the performance. I did something like that years ago — climbed onto this narrow stone ledge — but that was tied more to a St. Michael moment I was having.
Onyewuenyi
What was the St. Michael backstory?
Gaitor-Lomack
There was a period where St. Michael kept appearing to me in these strange metaphors and traces. Everywhere I turned, something was pointing back to him. I ended up at Popular Jewelry on Canal one afternoon and came across this vintage St. Michael pendant — 14k, Italian-made, just an incredibly crafted piece. One of the most beautiful objects I’ve ever owned. It hung on a gold rope I bought back in New Haven when I was putting in serious work. I felt like I was back in ’96 wearing that thing. I wore it for years.
Onyewuenyi
What was going on at the time?
Gaitor-Lomack
It was right after one of the best openings I’ve had — at PPOW. I was dressed in off-white; Michelle was with me, also in off-white. Then later that night, something shifted. It was Fashion Week on 9/11/2021. The streets had this thirsty energy. Tribeca was on the edge of a new rebirth — designers, artists, people chasing proximity, trying to squeeze into whatever they thought the moment was. Still happening. I made the decision later that spring to move back to L.A.
Onyewuenyi
You’ve talked about having these spiritual encounters — these visions. Some people might dismiss that. They might call them hallucinations. But I think when I look at your work, and how you move in the world, it’s very clear these encounters shape your practice.
Gaitor-Lomack
Right. And when you’re tapped into that kind of process, you’re not imagining things — you’re receiving them. There’s something extraordinary about making the unseen present, passionately and uniquely, through the work. These aren’t hallucinations. They’re visions. They pull you into different places and experiences that most people never step into.
I remember one time in Palermo, I got lost wandering through this old town. I ended up inside this beautiful church — glowing like I’d never seen before. I had this moment like, How did I even get here? Because back home? I’m not stepping into a church. I avoid those structures entirely.


























