Vaquera has obviously been pretty outspoken about their political beliefs in the past, when it comes to their collections. Do you think hair can be political on its own?
I think it is. There’s actually something that I am working on now, where I’ve been interviewing radical people and trying to figure out a way to mush beauty and being radical, or being active, together. They often seem like really separate things, and hair can seem like something that isn’t important, but I don’t think either is true. For me, I can definitely, for the most part, look at somebody and based on their hair figure out if we will get along or not. It sounds weird, but there are certain haircuts, and certain colors, and ways of wearing your hair that are radical.
Also, being okay with what your texture is, is a really radical statement in itself, especially if you grew up with curlier hair. Like me—I’m Greek and Jewish, so I have a beard, and lots of thick, dark, curly hair that’s really considered unmanageable, and unprofessional. Even more so for black women, too. I mean, adhering to white beauty standards doesn’t make you more professional, or richer, or smarter, or better. In cities, those kind of differences are more acceptable, but for people wearing their hair naturally outside of cities, in a lot of ways, makes it harder for them to, for example, get a job. If you want to be hired, you have to look like a clean, white lady—you have to always think of the public eye and commercialize yourself.
You said you could tell by someone’s hairstyle if you would get along with them. So, what’s a hairstyle that makes you want to be best friends with someone? What’s a hairstyle that makes you think someone is lame?
I basically get along with anyone who doesn’t have beachy waves. Beachy waves, for me—especially because I do live in LA most of them time—are a boner killer. That look just bums me out. Like, this weird concept of what you think is normal. But it’s just boring, everyone wants to look the fucking same—like someone from Instagram. Literally, if someone comes to me and says they want the beachy waves, I won’t do it. I tell them they should find someone else because that’s just not my style.
But also, the most annoying thing about beachy waves is that it’s advertised as looking natural, but no one’s hair looks like that ever! So, it sucks when I meet girls who are like, ‘I want this picture with natural waves,’ and I’m just like, ‘That’s not natural, that’s a blow dry, and then they put a flatiron through it, then a curling iron, and used about $200 worth of product.’ It just creates this horrible idea of what hair is supposed to be, which takes us back to our conversation about hair being political. It’s manufactured. So, don’t beat yourself up because your hair doesn’t look like that when you get out of the shower. When did that fucking happen?
Well, if you think about it: in the ‘80s, everything was so huge and unnatural. Then, in the ‘90s, it went back to more natural, so-called normal hair. So, you have all of these people who want to be on trend, and they see grunge in fashion magazines, and try to recreate what they think is naturally messy, but then it’s totally stylized.
Right, but it’s a slightly stylized messy for people who already have straight hair. So, there is no beachy, effortlessly natural messy hair for anybody who doesn’t have pretty straight hair. And if you have a lot of hair, like me, it doesn’t work for you either. But it’s not like I’m not going to be a bitch about it and say, ‘I don’t like your hair we can’t hang out.’
When we’re talking about beauty, I think hair has the most ability to be radical just by being itself—having short hair, or naturally curly hair when it’s supposed to be straight. So, I think what you do is really interesting because you work with what people already have. I mean, I know when I was younger, I wish I had a hairstylist who didn’t always make it look like they had styled my hair—it just didn’t make me feel like myself.
Yeah, it’s about being okay with yourself, which sounds like an easy thing to do, but it’s fucking hard. I mean, we have mirrors in front of us, we have the most beautiful people in the world on magazine covers that make you feel like, ‘What? Wow, I don’t look like that, I guess I’m just trash.’ I don’t care how much you’ve worked on yourself, or how much self-esteem you have, or how much you love yourself—it’s fucking difficult. And then things turn into a trend! Like now, certain body shapes are trendy–that’s just so weird to me.